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AcneNet This Month
December 2000
Acne’s Unseen Scars: Emotional and
Social Stress
Most acne that appears in pre-teen years
or adolescence disappears spontaneously before
ages 25-30. Some acne
persists into later years. Much less frequently, acne appears after ages
25-30. Most acne that does not
spontaneously disappear after adolescence can be successfully treated by
a dermatologist. Severe acne requires longer and more aggressive
treatment.
These basic facts about the natural
history and treatment of acne are important, but they fail to touch on
the most important fact about acne for a great many people with acne—its
negative impact on their emotional and social well-being.
Even close friends and family members may
not understand how emotionally devastating acne can be. Perhaps because
acne is a non-fatal condition confined to the outer layers of the skin,
perhaps because acne is usually associated with adolescence and is thus
perceived as a "kid’s disease", many people who do not have
acne just do not understand the psychological and social impact of acne.
Lack of sympathy may also be due to a
widely-held belief that acne is somehow the fault of the acne sufferer.
For instance, the person with acne "doesn’t take care of him or
herself." Or, the person with acne "eats all the wrong stuff
and gets acne." These myths persist and are hard to eradicate. For
some people, it may be easier to accept a folk myth than to learn the
truth about the causes of acne.
"My friends call me pus-face, and
laugh," a 16-year-old girl wrote to AcneNet. "I try not to cry
but it really hurts. Even if a boy asks me for a date I won’t accept
because I’m afraid I’ll embarrass him if I’m seen with him."
This girl’s experience (paraphrased,
not quoted directly), is a poignant example of social isolation caused
by casually cruel indifference of friends. The friends may even think
they are being "funny" with their remarks. While this girl’s
acne may well disappear within the next several years, acne will have
left psychological scars that may be difficult to heal.
Family members may be insensitive to the
emotional stress of acne, or they may be fully aware of the emotional
problems and may themselves be emotionally stressed—especially if the
person with acne is a son or daughter. A mother described her
35-year-old son’s two decades of social isolation:
"Since he was 15 years old he has
had blackheads, red inflamed bumps and pus-filled pimples all over his
face, chest and back. He was treated for acne but it came back, so now
he won’t see another doctor. He acts like his life is over. He never
goes out because he is ashamed of the way he looks. What can I do but
pray for a miracle?"
The emotional stress of acne can touch
everyone in the family. This mother is devastated by the emotional
distress of her son.
In general, acne has a higher
"severe" ranking among people with acne than among those who
have not experienced acne. The difference in attitude is often more
apparent to those with acne than to those without. When 2,000 military
recruits 18-19 years old were questioned regarding their attitudes
toward acne, most of those with acne rated it as a "severe"
condition while those without acne tended more to call it a "minor
problem" or had no opinion.
The same study by an acne investigator
showed that having acne was believed to be an occupational handicap by
young men who felt they had been turned down for jobs because they had
acne. For the majority of the young men with acne, the most important
feature of acne was its appearance—"very embarrassing",
"not nice to look at", "makes one very
self-conscious".
Interviews conducted with acne patients
by an acne investigator showed that more than half of those interviewed
said they believed their acne made it more difficult to get or keep a
job, or made interpersonal relationships with supervisors and other
employees more difficult. The interviews revealed only the perceptions
of the persons interviewed, with no objective cross-checking of actual
employment status. The interviews were revealing of the beliefs of acne
patients regarding the effect of acne on their lives.
Self-consciousness about acne can be a
precursor to clinically identified depression.
"I spent hours in front of the
mirror looking at myself," a young woman wrote. "I couldn’t
believe this was me and I guess I kept hoping it wasn’t. I got so
depressed I almost lost my family."
The young woman said she was finally
treated for depression after a dermatologist recognized the symptoms.
Acne can be emotionally distressing and
socially isolating, but people with acne need to believe they are not as
isolated as they feel. Millions of people have acne, so having acne does
not make one an unusual "freak"—it is a common condition
about which there are many myths and misperceptions. Acne has
physiologic causes—it is not caused by poor diet or poor hygiene, as
may still be believed by some who seem to think that acne is somehow
"deserved" by those who have it. These attitudes are
persistent and hard to change—something that every person with acne
must learn to live with.
A general physician or dermatologist with
whom the acne patient can form a good relationship can be a source of
support. Dermatologists especially understand that, for the person with
acne, acne is not a "minor" condition.
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